Ukraine : My fiancee from Ukraine is going back to Ukraine

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Ukraine : My fiancee from Ukraine is going back to Ukraine

I had an interesting exchange with an American guy via email about him bringing a woman from Ukraine to the USA on a K-1 visa and then she decided to go back to Ukraine before getting married. He suggested that I publish this exchange because others can learn from it. I will only leave out his name and phone number.

Q.

Hello.
I have already done the go to Ukraine and K1 visa thing. Do any of the woman you represent live in the USA and understand the culture enough that they want to stay?
Thank you.
*****

A.

*****,
1. I’m not an agency so I do not “represent” any women. I help men find women on local Russian dating sites (not mail order bride agency sites). I also help men communicate, really get to know and develop a relationship with the women from Russia, Ukraine, Belarus and Moldova.
2. yes there are Russian women who already live in the USA and I can possibly help you connect with some of them.
3. Reading between the lines I think that the problem wasn’t that she didn’t understand the culture here, rather that you two were probably not right for each other. Did she go back to Ukraine?
Too many men who try to find a wife through a “Russian bride” agency wind up with a woman that they really don’t know or understand. This goes both ways though and many of these women don’t really understand the guy she is marrying. Agency translators that most men use usually have limited English skills and don’t have enough life experience to help with relationship advice. They also don’t really understand American man’s mentality so are not able to provide all the support needed to make this venture a success.
I offer my clients the way for them to truly get to know each other with their woman along with relationship coaching which makes all the difference.
best regards,
Ed

Q.

Ed, thank you for your quick reply.
I did not mean to simplify my story. You are very correct. For the relationship to end up the way it did – it had to have incompatibility issues as well. She will be returning to Khmelnitsky next Sunday. Had I found you earlier I would asked for you to help in this communication. As you know, we as humans want to believe in the possibilities of love and ignore incompatibility issues too long.
Anyway, I want to thank you for your time. I am not sure what I will do, but I’m not in a position to waste another two years, thousands of dollars, for the hope. I will simply modify my dream of having a smart beautiful, strong, independent woman from another country to an American girl. Those are also hard to find. 🙂
I was just too naive in my search, the investment it takes, and most of all believed the agency way was possible for me because I saw success stories. Feel free to use my case as testimonial of what not to do. Just not my name please.
You seem to have an honest business and I wish you well.
Thank you
*****

A.

Just FYI: most of my clients find a good, compatible woman in a matter of
3-4 months as long as they have realistic expectations, not in 2 years. Yes you
will probably spend as much money but the results will be quite different, and in the
long run you will actually save money, but most importantly will have a
wonderful woman in your life.
Ed

  1. Dave
    Dave04-13-2013

    Ed,
    I would like to get in touch with you, I could use your assistance.
    Thank you!
    Dave

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