If you search for a Russiangirl on a mail order bride Agency site that markets women to Americans and Western men in general there is a huge probability that you will either get scammed or if by chance there is a real woman behind a picture she may be a gold digger, professional dater or a Green Card seeking girl. In short, you’ll spend a lot of time spinning your wheels: most of my clients do before they come to me.
The vast majority of good, family oriented women would not intentionally look for a man from another country. Most Russian women have strong family ties, close friends and a career. They love their culture and normally are loyal to their country. They would not intentionally want to leave all that behind! Marrying a foreigner is actually more of a negative for them! That’s the kind of woman you do want to marry!
The only reason that they are single and looking is because statistically, there are quite a bit more marriage minded, available women than men in Russia! Russian men really have it made! By the time a girl is around 25 years old she’s had her share of players, alcoholics and abusive men. She wants to find a good, family oriented, stable man to create a family with. But for a number of Russian women chances of finding a good husband in Russia are slim, so some girls will consider a foreign guy. If a Russian woman falls in love with you, she will follow you anywhere, no matter what country you are from… even if you live in North Korea!
Things are different in Russia now compared to 10 or 15 years ago and women are not looking to get out just for economic reasons, which is a good thing actually.
There is still a shortage of available, marriage minded single men there, so Western men have a very good chance of meeting a good woman who is not just looking for a stepping stone to the US (or another Western country) but rather a soulmate. If you win her heart, you will have a solid relationship.
There are plenty of beautiful, family oriented single women in Russia and Ukraine (if you know where to look and how to talk to them) but you will not find them on Yahoo, Match or CL. Match and Yahoo actually block Russian IPs so most of “Russian Girls” there are scammers in my opinion.
It’s pretty much a 100% sure thing that if you get approached by a “Russian woman” on any english speaking web site it’s going to be a scam. Normal Russian women without ulterior motives would not typically seek out and contact foreigners. They just don’t do that!!!
A Russian woman typically can not come here “to meet you” A typical scam is when a girl (or in some cases a man pretending to be a girl) after writing a few very long warm letters tells you that she is falling in love with you and now she is ready to come to the USA to meet you in person, “to be with you”.
Her sick grandma gave her blessing to come to you, and you are very excited with anticipation of having this gorgeous young
thing arriving to your door step and throwing herself into your arms…Everything is set. She sent you a copy of her passport and visa… But…but….
but she “suddenly” needs several hundred dollars (usually around $800 to $2000) wired to her by Western Union because she is just a little short. It’s a scam!!! You will never see the girl or your money again.
You should know that before you can bring a girl here on a fiancée visa (K-1), you will have to meet her in person outside of the USA and have proof of that. Same applies to Canadians. immigration procedure is a bit different there, they don’t have fiancée visa there but if you are Canadian you still will have to meet her outside your country first. So if you are not willing or prepared to travel there this might not be for you.
There is another way!
When I was looking for my wife, I found local Russian dating sites, similar to match.com and Facebook where there are millions of Russian and Ukrainian women advertising, looking for LOCAL men. Those sites are direct contact, no agencies or 3rd parties! They are all in Russian language and don’t target American / Western men, therefore you actually meet and get to know the real women and not mailorder bride scammers. A number of those women will be open to getting to know a man from another country, even though they are not specifically looking for one. You do need to be able to read a girl’s profile in Russian to understand what exactly she is looking for. There are all kinds of ads, not all of them are looking for a serious relationship or marriage, and some specifically state: “NO FOREIGNERS!!!”. So without fluent knowledge of Russian I wouldn’t recommend doing this on your own.
Remember, the key is to find a girl that is looking for the same things you do, someone that you’d have things in common with, similar interests, goals in life, values and obviously mutual attraction has to be there as well. I can help you find Russian women according to your specifications, exactly the type of woman you are looking for.
It’s exactly like you’d be looking for a woman on www.match.com only unlike Match, the odds are definitely in your favor on local Russian sites! And with my help there will be no language barrier! I will help you find honest, family oriented women that fit your criteria and with my translation and advice you will get to know them very well as if you both speak the same language.
Some would consider me an expert when it comes to building and maintaining a relationship with a woman. My knowledge is particularly valuable to a Western man who is trying to win a heart of a Russian woman. Most of my clients feel that having me on their side as a relationship and dating coach is one of the most important benefits of working with me. Furthermore when there’s any certain dilemma with a developing situation or communication which I need a second opinion on, I often consult my own ‘expert consultant’: My Russian Wife!
So I will help you create personal ads in Russian language, complete with photos and description on several local Russian sites. We will be contacting girls that fit your criteria, and when they respond I will be translating your correspondence with them. These will be real women, no scam, and you will be talking and getting to know them within a couple of days of starting to work with me.
Within a few weeks of working with me you will have talked to many girls and you will narrow down your search to 3 or 4 girls that you feel you truly “connected” with and now you are developing a good online friendship / relationship with them, with some romantic overtones. You can also make three-way phone calls to them with me on the line to help you translate the conversation. Once you are ready, we can schedule a trip to Russia or Ukraine to meet your 3 or 4 chosen prospects and spend a few days with each, getting to know them in person and figuring out who you have the best connection and chemistry with.
I help my clients with all the logistics – scheduling dates, renting apartments (which can save you thousands of $$$ compared to staying at a hotel), arrange transportation, cell phone, visa application and at the end I can even help with K-1, fiancée visa application if you are from the US.
I will travel to Russia or Ukraine with you, to help with translation, selection process and many other things like arranging transportation, accommodations, coordinating dates, evaluating the women you date, taking photos, etc. Since a deeper level of communication is the key to finding your soul mate it would make a lot of sense to have me there with you. I will be available to you 24/7 to do translation and my English skills are normally far superior to most local translators since I’ve lived in the USA for 31 years and, of course, Russian is my native language.
I offer a very personalized, one-on-one service and will hold your hand through this entire process. You will always have me available to give you my honest opinion and advice, and to protect you against being scammed.
I would like to emphasize that I AM NOT AN AGENCY! My service is more like a consultant, translator, relationship and dating coach and some of my clients call me their “Wingman”. I found my beautiful Russian wife and I can help you find your soulmate using the same method. I have done it with over 40 men to date. You can see some of their photos in “Clients” gallery.